Category Archives: Just For Men

Aug 24

If you can play games you can play “The Game”

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For this article I will be drawing the similarities between Video gaming and the Pick-up game. As a reference for this post I will be using the Mystery Method (Pick-up Artist) to draw my conclusions. This one I found pretty fun to dive into being that I love games, and I was interested to find a scarlet thread between the two. It is interesting to find that so many gamers are identified as social failures. I think that is in part the fault of us gamers. In this post I will try to show you that if used correctly, and with a changed outlook that the same skills you use to beat video games are the very same when playing “The Game.”

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Aug 01

Picking up Women at the Club

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Windigo made an excellent comment in his last post about Otaku’s having some serious dance skills. However weather you’re an Otaku, Nerd, or Geek that happens to be an amazing dancer or not, that doesn’t mean you’re are using it to your advantage.

I can’t count how many times I have gone with a group of friends to the club only to see some of them line up on the wall with their drinks and watch everyone have a good time. You have got to put yourself out there, talk up women at the bar, or get out there and show off and the dance floor. Continue reading →

Jul 18

Just because I’m an otaku doesn’t mean…

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In the as I like to call it “オタク　の　じだい” (Otaku no Jidai/Era of the Otaku) more and more people are starting to identify with that term. With the help anime, manga, video games becoming more mainstream, it opens a new door that could very well change the basic stereotypes of a geeks everywhere. I’d like to use myself and a few of my friends as an example to show you the changes that are taking place. In my group of friends we are all anime watching, video game playing, computer tech geeks, but and a BIG but we still find people that are surprised when they find out our interest while talking over cup of coffee or a margarita. I will lay out a few points that I think are some of the biggest stereotypical hurdles that social you will have to deal with or change in people’s minds.

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Jul 04

Ways to Know Women Are Interested

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Many guys have told me they lack confidence because women have never been interested in them. The funny thing is I’ve seen women that showed and interest in them all the time and they failed to pick on the “subtle” hints that should have told them to be bold or push a little harder, or even actually try!

If a woman keeps throwing out these signals and you don’t notice them and respond, shes going to believe: you’re not interested in her, you’re VERY inexperienced in talking to women in the first place, you’re completely clueless, you’re blowing her off, you’re gay, or you’re already taken and are just want the attention.

Here are some very clear ways women make their interest in someone known:

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